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Child Development and Growing Up

Children develop physically, socially and emotionally. As they grow they start to learn new skills, increase their independence and and understand and develop opinions and ideas. Read on to find out how you can play a key role in supporting the development of your child.

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If your child has additional needs visit our specific section for more support

Your child's development

Children develop in many ways and at different speeds. As your child gets older, they are not only physically growing, but developing socially and emotionally. From the moment your child is born, they are ready to explore and interact with the world. 

It can be helpful to have a general idea of what to expect from your child's development. But all children develop in their own time. Do not be concerned if your child is not meeting all the milestones for their age. It's normal for some children to develop skills in one area much quicker than in another.

Getting ready for change

Getting Ready for Change (GR4C) aims to support your child, young person and your family through key transition stages, or recognised times of change and child development. It consists of 4 questionnaires relating to your child’s development.

The Reception year and Year 6 questionnaires are completed by parents and carers. The Year 9 and Year 11 questionnaires are to be completed by young people themselves. 

Once completed, you’ll be provided with links to our website where you can find more information on the topics you selected. 

Your results can be downloaded as a PDF. The questionnaires are anonymous and will not appear on your child’s health record.

Hello, my name's Heather and I'm a Specialist Community Public Health Nurse. I'd like to introduce you to Getting Ready for Change. A set four new digital health questionnaires aimed at children, young people and families.

Getting Ready for Change questionnaires are issued to parents and carers when their child is aged 3 to 4 and again aged 10 to 11. This corresponds to important transition points in your child's journey through education. Questionnaires are issued directly to young people aged 13 to 14 and again aged 15 and 16. The questionnaires will be delivered by email from your child's education provider or through links in local authority. For example, if your child is homeschooled. You'll receive a link which takes you to the questionnaire portal on our website where you can select the questionnaire which applies to you. This will open the digital questionnaire, which is completed as a series of drop down questions.

You will be asked whether you require more information around several health topics relating to you or your child's development. At the end of the questionnaire, you can download a PDF of your results, which you can keep. You'll be provided with links to our website where you can find more information on the topics you selected.

We ask you to provide your postcode and education provider, but the questionnaire is anonymous. This means it's not linked to you or your child and we are not able to identify you individually. This will not appear on your or your child's health record and you don't have to complete it if you don't want to. We use the postcode and education provider to help us see where common worries and concerns are and work with communities around providing advice and support.

You don't have to wait to receive a questionnaire to access our service for health advice or support. You can find lots of information right here on our website about all of the health topics we cover in the questionnaire. And if you want more help, you can call our Single Point of Access desk to speak to a member of our team on 0300 029 50 50. Young people can speak directly to a School Nurse through our Chathealth messaging service by texting 0748 635 443.

Thank you.

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Who can help

If you have any questions or concerns about your child's development, a health professional in our team will be able to offer advice and support.

You can Call Us on 0300 029 50 50 or Text Us on 07520 649887 to start a conversation.

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