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Characteristics of autism

Children with ASD are affected in a variety of ways and to very different degrees, and this is why it is called a spectrum. It is important to remember that the autistic spectrum is broad and therefore different children with ASD may display all or only some of the characteristics described in the following sections.

"The concepts of physical and mental impairment are fairly easy for people to grasp, but the idea of social impairment is much more difficult to understand (and to explain)." - Early Support .

Explore the topics on this page:

What is autism?

What are the signs?

Top tips

Top tips for managing your child's repetitive behaviours or stimming

  • Be patient and tolerant, allow for the autism.
  • Don’t reprimand your child for their repetitive behaviour and motor mannerisms
  • Read the section in this website about supporting your child with different behaviour.
  • Consider possible causes of the behaviour, what has happened in that day, what is due to happen.
  • Become a detective, observe your child and try to understand the underlying reason for it. For example has anything been different, or are you wearing a new perfume?
  • Remember there will be a reason that the behaviour is happening. As well as the autism look out for signs of sensory or medical problems.

Top tips for managing our child's special interests

  • Be patient and tolerant, allow for the autism.
  • Empathise with your child, show them that you know how important their interest is to them.
  • Don’t tease or criticise your child about their interest
  • If the interest is interfering with learning or daily activities, try offering specific times for them to spend on their special interests and once agreed don’t waiver on this unless you have given advanced warning.
  • Look for ways to expand your child’s special interest.
  • Find out more about what they are doing and talk to your child about their interest, this might help you to engage more with your child.
  • If you are travelling, try to take their special interest with you so that they have an instant comforter if they are feeling anxious or to stop them from becoming bored.
  • Remember, to you the special interest may seem pointless or silly, but to your child it might be the most precious thing in the world.

Top tips for sensory differences

  • Observe your child and try to find out which sensory issues they may have. The more you can find out and understand, the easier it will be to support your child. For example, some people may be extremely sensitive to noise, light, touch, smell or movement, while others may under-respond to such sensations.
  • It is important to consider both the environment and the task and what modification and adjustments can happen to enable your child to feel safe and comfortable and therefore be able to play and learn.
  • The sensory needs of the person change with time; so a child's sensory processing will mature as they get older.
  • Be aware that your child may only be able to utilise one sense at a time. For example, when they are looking at something they may not hear you.
  • When you’ve identified issues which trigger sensory problems, try to avoid these where possible. 
  • Follow a routine, where possible, to try and avoid situations where your child may feel overwhelmed.
  • Have a quiet time or space so that your child can relax and regain their composure.
  • There are several reasons why it can be difficult for people to engage in activities that others manage easily; sometimes this can be the sensory differences, but other factors can be important too. For example, rigidity of thought and behaviour, the need to follow a routine or finding social situations uncomfortable. Sensory differences are part of the whole picture.

Find out what other family members have said

My son taps repetitively on every surface. On the basis of ‘if you can’t beat them, join them’ we got him a drum kit. If he gets cross, angry or frustrated he goes and plays drums which helps him calm down and he is a grade six drummer now which gives him something to be proud of.
teenage boy playing drums

Parent

It is not uncommon for autistic people to become fixated on past events, animals, places and people! This can be very interesting because they may feel comfortable sharing information and facts with you, which will give you a chance to bond with them in a way that they feel comfortable.
2 teenage girls talking on sofa

Sibling

… it is important to use the interest as a means to share interest, open communication.
little girl sitting on lap of adult woman on a sofa looking at a handheld tablet device.

Parent

Even though my son had great difficulties working in a group and turn taking, his keen interest in music allowed him to overcome his difficulties. We encouraged him to join in workshops and group music sessions, and this helped him to work on his social skills and team work, with like-minded people. He is now a valid member of a rock group and enjoys performing in gigs throughout the area.
Asian boy using headphones and smiling happy while listening music

Parent

When my son was older he explained to me ‘When I was a baby I remember having a strange object thrust into my mouth which I found quite annoying. It had a very strange taste and an even stranger texture. Also, when I sucked on it, it made the most awful squeaking noise.’ I now realise the reason why my son got so distressed when a rubber teat on a bottle or dummy was put into his mouth!
Toddler pushing toy

Parent

This information has been co-produced with parents, young people, local parent forums, CAMHS, education psychology and other key partners. It was also created with a neurodiverse team. 

The language around neurodiversity is changing and evolving. We want to ensure our information is inclusive and sensitive. The terms used in this pack are the most up to date when the information was created. If there are any outdated words or terminology, no offense is intended and we will work hard to update these. We are grateful for your support and feedback.

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